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Vital Resources for Escorts & Sex Workers

Mar
21

Vital resources for escorts & sex workers

Sex workers around Asia and across the world are highly susceptible to all forms of abuse. According to Amnesty International, they are “an extremely marginalised group of people.” As such, it is not news when escorts are being discriminated, beaten up, sexually abused, and harassed. It is also a common scenario when sex workers are deprived of access to basic health services and housing assistance. Thanks to community organisations, vital resources for escorts & sex workers were made available for their perusal. These resources usually encompass their basic rights, online tips and guides, and programs funded by private organisations that escorts can take part of.

Vital Resources for Escorts & Sex Workers

There are numerous organisations and communities that advocate the rights of the underprivileged, including escorts and sex workers. Among the things that they are standing up for are issues on trafficking of women,  HIV and AIDS awareness, decriminalisation of prostitution, and illegal drug use. One can find plenty of vital resources for escorts & sex workers from these organisations:

  • Amnesty International

Amnesty International is fighting for all human rights, regardless of a person’s social stature or role in the society. The group is championing for the decriminalisation of all facets of consensual adult sex. There are still a lot of countries in the world that consider prostitution as a criminal offense. Because of this, sex workers are often coerced, exploited and abused.

Moreover, Amnesty International maintains their stand that those who take advantage of the plight of sex workers are the ones who should be criminalised. In addition, they aim to refocus the laws that explore trafficking and abuse instead of targeting the sex work, which would only put the people involved at a greater risk. You can find the campaigns, research and the projects of Amnesty International here.

  • Desiree Alliance

Desiree Alliance is a group led by former and current prostitutes. It is their goal to minimise the work-related harm that sex workers experience. In addition, Desiree Alliance pushes its political advocacies and provide health services to sex workers using their organisation as a platform.

The main goal of Desiree Alliance is to “reinvigorate the sex workers’ rights movement in the United States.” Today, the organisation is represented by health professionals, social scientists, sex educators and of course, sex workers. They conform to the belief of meeting their goals in a non-violent manner. For them, violence against any person is violence against all people. Get to know more about the community here.

  • Scarlet Alliance

Scarlet Alliance is an association of sex workers in Australia that aspires equality in terms of social, legal, political, cultural and economic justice for all sex workers. They are working to further the rights of sex workers through health promotion approaches.

Today, Scarlet Alliance is instrumental in the country’s response to HIV and AIDS among sex workers. They also advocate Peer Education, where anyone who has an understanding or experience in the sex industry gets to work as a peer educator. This program is said to be the most successful example of service delivery to escorts. Scarlet Alliance’s website provides vital resources for escorts & sex workers. You can acquaint yourself in here.

  • Sex Workers Outreach Project

Sex Workers Outreach Project (SWOP) is Australia’s oldest and biggest community-based peer education sex worker organisation. Its main priorities are the prevention of HIV and STIs, education and health assistance to escorts in NSW. What helped them achieve a respectable status is how they work closely with escorts, the government, private organisations and health institutions.

Those who openly engage themselves in the sex work are given sex supplies, seminars on sexual health, and referrals for free legal counselling. SWOP also instituted a peer-based phone support service for sex workers. Read more on SWOP’s services and resources here.

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High Flying Escorts: Travelling the World

Mar
09

High Flying Escorts: Travelling the World

The boons of escorting are easy to identify, especially if we are talking about its monetary rewards. More often than not, high end escorts live a luxurious life that is envied by many. They get to enjoy the finer things in life, work in flexible hours, and become a high flying escorts: travelling the world. On top of that, money is never a problem as they get remunerated very well. Painting the town red in the best parties and events is also an added perk in this kind of work.

The Sun reported that the escorts on Instagram are the new ‘rich kids on Instagram’. These smoking hot courtesans regularly update their followers with posts from their recent trips, luxurious getaways, branded apparels, and of course, shots of their gifted bodies. A few months escorting for Sydney’s best brothel are a good stepping stone in becoming a high flying escorts: travelling the world. As a matter of fact, attractive women view sex as a physical skill worth commercially exploiting, which, in turn, can lead to a posh lifestyle and exciting travel opportunities.

High Flying Escorts: Travelling the World 

The lavish lifestyle of high flying escorts: travelling the world is also depicted in a series of books. According to the Daily Mail Online, a former escort based in New York launched an autobiographical cum fictional trilogy of her life as an escort. This woman, who is known as Lantana Bleu in the escort industry, revealed that she was used to men giving her a lot of money and flying her to various places for work.

But not all escorts are in it solely for the money. In an article from the Huffington Post, an escort shared what it is like to be “valued at a high price.” Aside from the financial perks of the job, she gets to see the positive effects of what she does for her clients. For example, her experiences with her clientele is more than physical. The more she spends her time with them, the more confident her clients become. There is something fulfilling in giving others a space where they can be who they want to be without being judged.

At the end of the day, work is work. There are sacrifices that need to be made in order to accommodate the client’s needs. But, hey! Who said that high flying escorts: travelling the world get everything handed to them on a silver platter?

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Ten Most World Famous Escorts

Feb
14

marilyn monroe

It’s a prude, prude world. Some people cringe at the word prostitute, courtesan; escorts. Some even use that as an insult. But aren’t we all, in the bigger scheme of things, trading sex -for security, for stability and continuity of the species; for family. It takes inordinate amount of skill to coax a man out of his clothes, more so, to get paid for doing it. This is a list of the ten most world famous escorts; accomplished women, intelligent as they were sensual who claimed fame lying on their backs.

  1. Aspasia – Aspasia was thought to have been born from a wealthy, educated family as she was known to have been highly educated herself. Born in the Ionian colony of Miletus, she lived most of her adult life in Greece and is often linked to Pericles who she bore a son to. At that time foreigners like her were not allowed to marry an Athenian citizen. The upside to this, though, was that she was free from the normal restrictions of married women and was allowed to participate in public life. In her lifetime, she has managed to be memorable to a handful of scholars and believed to have influenced even Socrates.
  2. Theodora – The Empress Theodora may be the most influential and powerful woman in the history of the Roman Empire. She came from humble beginnings. Her father was a bear trainer. Her mother was a dancer and an actress, who, when her father died, started Theodora’s career that led to her becoming a prostitute. She later married Justinian who was the nephew of the Emperor Justin and later himself became Emperor. History credits Theodora with convincing Justinian and his army to stay in the City and suppress the rebellion.
  3. Catherine Walters – aka “Skittles” was the last great courtesan of Victorian London. She was an accomplished horsewoman who wore the tightest riding habit without any underwear. Her skill coupled with her classical beauty drew admirers and her rides on Rotten Row in Hyde Park became an anticipated event. She was a trendsetter. Her most endearing quality is her discretion and loyalty. Among her benefactors were Wilfrid Blunt, the future Edward VII, and Napoleon III
  4. Nell Gwyn – Nell started working at an early age selling refreshments before getting her first theatre break. The aristocrats often are patron of the arts and one fateful day Nell met King Charles II and to make a long story short, he became her benefactor. The good king had a lot of other distractions but Nell managed to endear herself so much so that King Charles in his death bed said “Let not poor Nelly starve.” Wit and straightforwardness was among her qualities. She made short an argument when someone called her a whore by saying, “I am a whore. Find something else to fight about.” More infamous was her quip when mistaken to be a rival mistress and called the Catholic whore , she corrected the crowd and told them “Good people, you are mistaken. I am the Protestant whore.”
  5. Cora Pearl – much of her beginnings are under dispute, even the name she was given when she was born. She adopted the name Cora Pearl when she decided to stay in Paris and eventually became one of the celebrated courtesans of notable aristocrats such as Victor Massena, 3rd Duke du Rivoli and later 5th Prince of Essling; the Prince of Orange and Charles Duc Morny, half-brother of Louis-Napoleon, Napoleon III. Flamboyance was the name of the game, from her own servants, a small palace, designer clothes, diamond-studded bikini and outlandish dinner parties. She would pit one benefactor against another until notoriety caught up with her in affaire Duval and gradually she had to sell off her properties.
  6. Rahab – It would prove to be true, bad girls go everywhere, even the bible. Rahab was a prostitute who paid her own way. By all accounts she was intelligent and independent, had her own house and her freedom. When Joshua sent spies out to Jericho they stayed at Rahab’s house where soldiers came looking for them but Rahab hid them in exchange for a promise to spare her family in the taking of the city. Some say that the term red-light district came from the marking of a hanging red cord out the window on Rahab’s house. The spies made good their promise, eventually her line would produce King David and Jesus Christ.
  7. Veronica Franco – beautiful as she was intelligent, Veronica was not only a courtesan but a poet and a philanthropist in 16th century Venice. She is suggestive without being vulgar, not in public anyway. She learned and inherited her profession from her mother. Dubbed as an ‘honest courtesan’ she was well versed in literature, music and poetry. She had been married when she was younger; Veronica though, believed much in equality and thus strained the marriage and ended on a sour note. Among her distinction is her being listed in the 1565 edition of Il Catalogo di tutte le principale e più honorate cortigiane di Venezia and having King Henri III as her benefactor. “My happiness is measured in Inches, 2, 4, 6, 8, …. I LOVE SHOES TOO MUCH….” – Veronica Franco
  8. Mata Hari – the name Is almost synonymous with sensuality and intrigue, Margaret Zelle reinvented herself as an exotic temple dancer after she and her husband divorced and he was awarded custody of their daughter. As an erotic dancer, she performed in Paris and other European capitals where she drew admirers and some became her lovers wooing her lavishly with gifts vying for her attention. She gained fame at the advent of World War I, an intelligent, headstrong woman, fluent in French, English, Italian, Dutch and probably more. Being well traveled, wealthy and a known temptress, she aroused suspicions of being a double agent at a time when a volatile situation needed more than inaction. She was tried, convicted and in October 15, 1917, Mata Hari was put to death. Years after her execution, some would concede, there was little evidence to convict her much less condemn her.
  9. Marilyn Monroe – Model turned actress Marilyn Monroe was born Norma Jeane Mortenson then turned Baker. Marilyn’s early years were fraught with problems. Shuffled from foster homes after her mother was institutionalized because of mental illness, Marilyn never had stability until she lived with Ana Lower and afterwards married their neighbor Jim Dougherty. It was while they were married that World War II broke out. Marilyn was working at a factory and she was discovered in an effort to boost morale and show young women helping war effort. The road to stardom was not easy, sacrifices had to be made and relationships seldom flourish under the spotlight. At the prime of her career she supposedly rakes in $500 for spending time with producers and directors. In the end Marilyn married three times and divorced three times. Her ex-husbands were James Dougherty, Joe DiMaggio, and Arthur Miller. Her name was linked to both John and Robert Kennedy and Marlon Brando. She was found dead from probable suicide at the height of her career in 1962. She was 36.
  10. Sally Salisbury – known also as Sally Pridden or Priddon was the daughter of a bricklayer. She apprenticed with a seamstress but eventually ran away and sold pamphlets which were a cover for her more profitable business charging the schoolboys and apprentices for her time with them. She was a renowned for her beauty and wit, her patrons included The Secretary of State, Viscount Bolingbroke, Matthew Prior, The Duke of St. Albans, the Duke of Richmond and rumour has it, even the future George II. Her claim to fame (or infamy) was the stabbing of John Finch, brother of Lord Finch over some opera tickets for which she was charged and convicted of assaulting and wounding Finch. She served nine months of her year long sentence before succumbing to what was believed to be syphilis.
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Shopping To Be An Escort

Jan
07

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What items can’t a working girl live without …?

After deciding upon a career in the adult industry, the next thing is preparation. I prepared a list of things every escort should have from head to toe. Always remember grooming is a very important part of being a high class escort.

As an independent escort, your hair should always look and feel luxurious and healthy. Dry, damaged hair will compromise any style and will make you look less refined.

Hair care and styling products: Shampoo, Conditioner, Mousse, Curling iron, Hair dryer, Combs, Brushes.

Makeup can make or break your look. Apply makeup that is most flattering to your complexion without looking cakey and overdone.

Makeup: Blush on, eye makeup, mascara, foundation crème and powder, concealer, lipstick, lipliner.

Velvety smooth skin is a huge turn on for a client. Skin that is scaly and dry is not attractive. Make your skin as attractive as possible by keeping it hydrated and moisturised.

Skin Care Products: Perfumed lotion, toner and moisturiser

Keep your nails not too long but just enough to have that awesome feeling when nails are gently dragged across the skin.

They should be fresh and clean looking all the time.

Nail Care Products: Cuticle remover, nail file, nail clipper, cuticle stick, nail polish, nail buffer, cuticle trimmer and pusher.

Hygiene and cleanliness is very important for an escort for repeat clients.

Hygiene products: Sanitary wipes, hand sanitiser, mouth wash, deodorant.

Sporting a signature fashion style is crucial for the successful, independent escort.

You need to invest in a versatile wardrobe that allows you to dress comfortably for different occasions at a moment’s notice.

Wardrobe (Casual, Formal, Corporate) short tank top, elegant low tees, figure hugging designer jeans, sexy jumpsuit, short skirts, short halter type dress, sheer clothes, timeless classic cut dress, little black dress, long black dress , feminine silk blouse, fitted pencil skirt, black tailored pants, wool dress, overcoat, trench coat.

Clients will appreciate you wearing beautiful lingerie. Lingerie is an essential tool to an escort to turn on clients, so choose your lingerie well it should be feminine, sensual, comfortable and affordable.

Fine lingerie and bedroom wear –Exquisite corset, teddy, bra and panty sets, fluffy handcuffs and an extra pair of panties everytime you go out.

Expensive outfits can be ruined by a cheap pair of shoes. You can never go wrong when you invest in designers shoes.

Shoes: Black Pumps, rubber shoes, black High heel sandals, high heel platform shoes, chic leather boots.

A fabulous handbag can spruce up any outfit, but match it up with other bags you may also need to carry. You should also have a matched set of a briefcase and purse if you have to carry them both at the same time.

Bags: Clutch purse, hand bag, briefcase.

Health and safety are the primary concerns in the escort industry. Protect yourself from sexually transmitted infections; never forget to bring an ample supply of condoms with you. Also make sure you have something that you can defend yourself with and you are comfortable using.

Protection: Condoms, Tampons/ Menstrual cup, Pepper spray or stun gun

Prepaid phone and a back up cellphone. Carry a back up cell phone in case something happened to you. Your cell phone is your life line in case of emergency. Make sure you have it on you at all times.

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